a life in perfect balance

rebecca chapman  - relationship whisperer

That voice in your head telling you you are not enough.  The flaw that you are so scared other people will find out about.  All that energy hiding your  real self.  Or making yourself small so you won't be noticed. or be a "bother" or "needy"  Those conversations you are too scared to have.  Let's have a long hard chat to that brain of yours and stop this crap talk and start a new amazing life which YOU choose. 

Wondering why your relationships keep getting messed up? Can't for the life of you work out whether to stay or go? 

You don't have to do it alone.

real talk:

How It Works


You'll get a welcome pack to help you if you're not sure where to start.  Trust me - everyone I work with wonders if they're exaggerating. You aren't.


We do this together.  I am your new wingman.  We discuss actual real life situations and how you can learn what is behind your relationship choices and the plan we'll execute together. 


I never thought that I could stop feeling flawed, stop attracting people who made me feel shitty about myself AND actually start having an amazing life full of loving relationships – all without breaking the bank or losing my mind. But I Finally Discovered The Secret! And I can't wait to share it with you…

i can help because i've been there

let's schedule a time just for you. click here. 

Here's What You Need

More time for things that matter to you

Discovering what it is you really need in a relationship.  Lots of techniques to take your relationships from hot mess to mega success. 

better communication

The best way to express to others what you need and want.  Setting healthy boundaries.

freedom to do what you actually enjoy.

Much, much more time to really live your life.  Think of all that time you spend worrying if you have said or done the right thing.  Trying to hide who you really are. 

“I couldn't believe how much time and energy she was willing to dedicate to me. For the first time in my life I felt like I had met someone who just got it, someone with her own experiences and completely free of judgement. Someone who believed in me and someone who was in my corner. ”


Should you stay or go?  Let's sort this out.

How does this sound?

Fill your life with people you love and who love and understand the real you. 



the results you're going to get:

Don't trust your people picker?  Let's get it attracting the right people. 


Kick that imposter syndrome and self doubt in the booty and feel confident.


Work out what it is you actually want from this life and start living it. 


Yes, It Really Works

Danielle Prahl

If you want to better any area of your life - especially if you're feeling alone in your struggles, as I often have - don’t hesitate. Best investment you can make in yourself.

Yes, It Really Works


"The process was surprisingly swift, as each appointment lead to a series of tangible breakthroughs within me

Yes, It Really Works


"For the first time in my life I felt like I had met someone who just got it, someone with her own experiences and completely free of judgement. Someone who believed in me and someone who was in my corner. 

Is This Right For You?

you wonder why your relationships are such a mess - even though you're so successful

You're overwhelmed by the fear that you'll be alone.

you wonder if it's worth staying or if you should go

You're so tired of feeling like you can't find or keep good relationships. 

you're ready to stop attracting unhealthy people. 

Not everyone is the right fit for us.  Therapy is a very personal thing and you need to match your therapist and feel safe.  I work with people who are actually ready to make changes and move forward rather than living in their past.  Is that you?  Then let's get this party started. 

Book Your Consultation

schedule a time

is that a yes?

“If you're on the fence, let me just say this is the absolute best decision you can make.”

- melissa